Link Wrote:
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> Please don’t join any group that attributes itself
> to “real love”. If you need help with
> personal/emotional problems or marriage advice or
> any relationship problems whatsoever,do your
> background checks and make sure they are qualified
> to help you with what you are struggling with.
> Check their background and their credentials
> before parting with any money because I can assure
> you, you will lose more than that,you could end up
> losing EVEEYTHING,like I did.
>
> Did I have personal problems? Yes. Was there a
> problem within my marriage? Yes. Was it
> unsolvable? No,it wasn’t as I have found out
> since,there are many other things I could of done
> and it’s not until you are really “out” of real
> love (which wasn’t real at all) that you realise
> how stupid and foolish you have been. It brings up
> such grief and shame about it and the huge loss of
> everything,that you go into shock, which I think
> is why people are now too afraid to post anything
> or they are still believing all the BS and that
> everyone else is wrong,just like I did. I was
> hardcore at the start and would of bet my life on
> it. Of course,I will just be labelled a “victim”
> for posting this.
>
> It causes complete dependancy,which is actively
> encouraged at the start. It doesn’t help you
> grow,it leaves you open and vulnerable and exposed
> and nothing ever gets healed.
>
> Everyone is so really kind and supportive and
> caring in a way you might not of felt before (like
> me) and that becomes very attractive when you are
> at a low point and are desperate for some answers
> and want to save your marriage.
>
> The end result for me is that I wasted 5yrs of my
> life,threw away a 23yr marriage and divorced my
> husband,which I totally regret.THe loss for me
> feels huge.my ex was concerned about the amount of
> money I was spending and the level of
> dependancy,but by that time,I refused to listen to
> him as I had bought into the whole thing by then
> and totally blindly trusted pete Uglow and Ben leppier ) I left
> my kids with their father who are now really
> confused because when I left,I was told (yes told)
> to tell them that I couldn’t find a level of
> happiness (which I was never gonna find) An ex
> that hates me,because of the awful advice I took
> to block him from contacting me, along with most
> of his family I suspect,and I’m totally distraught
> and suicidal and have to go on meds,reluctantly.
>
> I lost all my friendships as for years I was
> travelllng up and down the country throwing myself
> into everything it had to offer. Seems I was a
> very good and compliant client as I now see
> it,desperate to get “held” most of the time,which
> if you look into the scientific research about
> chemicals released in the body (oxytocin/dopamine
> etc) these are bonding hormones which give you a
> “chemical high” and helps you to trust that person
> because it gives you a sense of “safety”. This is
> so wrong and this is why and how we have been
> emotionally left,like a child grieving for that
> connection,and low and behold,the “rug” was ripped
> from my feet at the end of last year when RL
> collapsed and being told by pete “it doesn’t work.
> It only works if you practice it in families”.
> Great eh? Divorced and left my family for nothing.
> My whole life gone.
>
> Thousands of pounds spent,all the time I really
> couldn’t see what I was doing and when I would
> often break down in tears,i was either told “you
> are chosing to be a victim” or “your not trusting
> and remembering all the love you have been given”
> and of course,it was always my fault so I blamed
> myself.
>
> I formed a huge emotional bond with pete Uglow and
> Ben leppier who became my “daddies” and had
> interventions with both of them and when I
> questioned Ben leppier about me “feeling in love” with
> him,(as I was worried) he said “you are meant to
> be in love with your daddy”. He told me how much
> he loved me and that I was his daughter and I
> believed him. I was worried at one stage he would
> leave and he said he took his choice to love me
> completely seriously and that wouldn’t happen as I
> was his adopted daughter now. It all sounds so
> crazy making now as he is a married man with 3
> kids and I know I’m not the only one this happened
> too. I felt very loved by him and still crave that
> connection.
>
> I have found out that “real love Europe” is still
> filtering people to greg via kimberley who runs
> it. Obviously Greg’s right hand man now and why
> wouldn’t she be? She is addicted to him.
>
> The other thing I was lead to was Mormonism which
> I have now left because it’s just another cult
> having done extensive research.
>
> I’m probably going to get slated but I don’t care
> anymore. They have helped ruin my life. None of it
> was real. It was all “ego” driven behind a facade
> of having their own agenda because at the end of
> the day, it WAS a buisiness for them and brought
> them in quite a tidy sum,while systematically
> deconstructing peoples “egos”. Dam dangerous and
> totally unethical and absolutely nothing to do
> with being “divinely” inspired by god or led by
> the spirit.
-------------------------------------------------------
> Please don’t join any group that attributes itself
> to “real love”. If you need help with
> personal/emotional problems or marriage advice or
> any relationship problems whatsoever,do your
> background checks and make sure they are qualified
> to help you with what you are struggling with.
> Check their background and their credentials
> before parting with any money because I can assure
> you, you will lose more than that,you could end up
> losing EVEEYTHING,like I did.
>
> Did I have personal problems? Yes. Was there a
> problem within my marriage? Yes. Was it
> unsolvable? No,it wasn’t as I have found out
> since,there are many other things I could of done
> and it’s not until you are really “out” of real
> love (which wasn’t real at all) that you realise
> how stupid and foolish you have been. It brings up
> such grief and shame about it and the huge loss of
> everything,that you go into shock, which I think
> is why people are now too afraid to post anything
> or they are still believing all the BS and that
> everyone else is wrong,just like I did. I was
> hardcore at the start and would of bet my life on
> it. Of course,I will just be labelled a “victim”
> for posting this.
>
> It causes complete dependancy,which is actively
> encouraged at the start. It doesn’t help you
> grow,it leaves you open and vulnerable and exposed
> and nothing ever gets healed.
>
> Everyone is so really kind and supportive and
> caring in a way you might not of felt before (like
> me) and that becomes very attractive when you are
> at a low point and are desperate for some answers
> and want to save your marriage.
>
> The end result for me is that I wasted 5yrs of my
> life,threw away a 23yr marriage and divorced my
> husband,which I totally regret.THe loss for me
> feels huge.my ex was concerned about the amount of
> money I was spending and the level of
> dependancy,but by that time,I refused to listen to
> him as I had bought into the whole thing by then
> and totally blindly trusted pete Uglow and Ben leppier ) I left
> my kids with their father who are now really
> confused because when I left,I was told (yes told)
> to tell them that I couldn’t find a level of
> happiness (which I was never gonna find) An ex
> that hates me,because of the awful advice I took
> to block him from contacting me, along with most
> of his family I suspect,and I’m totally distraught
> and suicidal and have to go on meds,reluctantly.
>
> I lost all my friendships as for years I was
> travelllng up and down the country throwing myself
> into everything it had to offer. Seems I was a
> very good and compliant client as I now see
> it,desperate to get “held” most of the time,which
> if you look into the scientific research about
> chemicals released in the body (oxytocin/dopamine
> etc) these are bonding hormones which give you a
> “chemical high” and helps you to trust that person
> because it gives you a sense of “safety”. This is
> so wrong and this is why and how we have been
> emotionally left,like a child grieving for that
> connection,and low and behold,the “rug” was ripped
> from my feet at the end of last year when RL
> collapsed and being told by pete “it doesn’t work.
> It only works if you practice it in families”.
> Great eh? Divorced and left my family for nothing.
> My whole life gone.
>
> Thousands of pounds spent,all the time I really
> couldn’t see what I was doing and when I would
> often break down in tears,i was either told “you
> are chosing to be a victim” or “your not trusting
> and remembering all the love you have been given”
> and of course,it was always my fault so I blamed
> myself.
>
> I formed a huge emotional bond with pete Uglow and
> Ben leppier who became my “daddies” and had
> interventions with both of them and when I
> questioned Ben leppier about me “feeling in love” with
> him,(as I was worried) he said “you are meant to
> be in love with your daddy”. He told me how much
> he loved me and that I was his daughter and I
> believed him. I was worried at one stage he would
> leave and he said he took his choice to love me
> completely seriously and that wouldn’t happen as I
> was his adopted daughter now. It all sounds so
> crazy making now as he is a married man with 3
> kids and I know I’m not the only one this happened
> too. I felt very loved by him and still crave that
> connection.
>
> I have found out that “real love Europe” is still
> filtering people to greg via kimberley who runs
> it. Obviously Greg’s right hand man now and why
> wouldn’t she be? She is addicted to him.
>
> The other thing I was lead to was Mormonism which
> I have now left because it’s just another cult
> having done extensive research.
>
> I’m probably going to get slated but I don’t care
> anymore. They have helped ruin my life. None of it
> was real. It was all “ego” driven behind a facade
> of having their own agenda because at the end of
> the day, it WAS a buisiness for them and brought
> them in quite a tidy sum,while systematically
> deconstructing peoples “egos”. Dam dangerous and
> totally unethical and absolutely nothing to do
> with being “divinely” inspired by god or led by
> the spirit.