Where to begin?
I had met my recruiter in a 12-step group, a couple of years before she did Landmark. These were the changes I noticed in her:
She went from being an honest person to being someone who would lie without batting an eye. She also became manipulative and conniving.
She also went through a divorce - her husband had taken the forum, and she felt that he was not applying Landmark enough to his life and his marriage. He said it didn't work for him, and so of course, according to her, he wasn't facing his "stuff" or trying hard enough.
Within a year, she married another Lekkie, and that didn't last, either.
Far from taking accountability for her actions, after recruiting me very aggressively, she was involved in setting me up for some very nasty stuff, providing personal information about me. I never saw her take any responsibility for the harm done to me. She showed no remorse, and seemed very callous when I called her out. She went from being a compassionate person to being a callous b____.
At one time, she respected peoples' "space," but then she became obsessed with "taking a stand" for me, and a few others, to accept whatever premise Landmark was trying to push, so much so that she became very intrusive into the private lives of others, violating privacy and boundaries. She would not take "no" for an answer, (apparently the word "no" is a "racket").
Her priorities became skewed. One time, I picked her up from the airport. She needed to be at work, but had broken a fake fingernail. Obsessed with "impeccability," she had called a salon to get it repaired before work.
Traffic was bumper-to-bumper at about 65 mph, and I was driving as fast as I could safely drive, but she wanted me to floor it and cut in and out of traffic so she could get to the salon on time. She basically wanted me to do a 40-minute drive in 20 minutes.
I told her she just needed to go to work, and fix the nail later. She said, "It's not impeccable!" The woman was a nurse. I asked her if she thought her boss would find it impeccable if we crashed and took out a family of five in the interest of perfecting her f@cking nail.
Oh well, that's a start. (Oh yes, she was completed convinced that Landmark had empowered her and made her a better person).
I had met my recruiter in a 12-step group, a couple of years before she did Landmark. These were the changes I noticed in her:
She went from being an honest person to being someone who would lie without batting an eye. She also became manipulative and conniving.
She also went through a divorce - her husband had taken the forum, and she felt that he was not applying Landmark enough to his life and his marriage. He said it didn't work for him, and so of course, according to her, he wasn't facing his "stuff" or trying hard enough.
Within a year, she married another Lekkie, and that didn't last, either.
Far from taking accountability for her actions, after recruiting me very aggressively, she was involved in setting me up for some very nasty stuff, providing personal information about me. I never saw her take any responsibility for the harm done to me. She showed no remorse, and seemed very callous when I called her out. She went from being a compassionate person to being a callous b____.
At one time, she respected peoples' "space," but then she became obsessed with "taking a stand" for me, and a few others, to accept whatever premise Landmark was trying to push, so much so that she became very intrusive into the private lives of others, violating privacy and boundaries. She would not take "no" for an answer, (apparently the word "no" is a "racket").
Her priorities became skewed. One time, I picked her up from the airport. She needed to be at work, but had broken a fake fingernail. Obsessed with "impeccability," she had called a salon to get it repaired before work.
Traffic was bumper-to-bumper at about 65 mph, and I was driving as fast as I could safely drive, but she wanted me to floor it and cut in and out of traffic so she could get to the salon on time. She basically wanted me to do a 40-minute drive in 20 minutes.
I told her she just needed to go to work, and fix the nail later. She said, "It's not impeccable!" The woman was a nurse. I asked her if she thought her boss would find it impeccable if we crashed and took out a family of five in the interest of perfecting her f@cking nail.
Oh well, that's a start. (Oh yes, she was completed convinced that Landmark had empowered her and made her a better person).