Hi Anonday,
I can see why you say that was how you experienced those calls. But (and I'm struggling to remember precisely the words used as this was 6 years ago, what I remember was the tone of voice), the way the words were used were as a form of control to my ears.
I guess because I'm someone who always turns up on time etc, trying to control one member of the group who was a few minutes late at the expense of any useful coaching felt like control to me. The dialogue between the seminar leader and this person went around and around in circles. And the participant was not in any way being rude or difficult.
What I learnt from those calls were that there are other ways to gain people's co-operation rather than pushing some jargon on them in to exert power.
I'm glad you found it useful.
I can see why you say that was how you experienced those calls. But (and I'm struggling to remember precisely the words used as this was 6 years ago, what I remember was the tone of voice), the way the words were used were as a form of control to my ears.
I guess because I'm someone who always turns up on time etc, trying to control one member of the group who was a few minutes late at the expense of any useful coaching felt like control to me. The dialogue between the seminar leader and this person went around and around in circles. And the participant was not in any way being rude or difficult.
What I learnt from those calls were that there are other ways to gain people's co-operation rather than pushing some jargon on them in to exert power.
I'm glad you found it useful.