Yes, @kdag,
I remember now, a friend I'd made from The Forum weekend was also doing some assisting, and she told me how aggressive they were to these volunteers. They had to clean the toilets in a particular way and were spoken to very rudely. She was very angry and unhappy about this and didn't do any more. And it certainly put me off assisting.
What is fascinating though is that people do continue to assist and go along with this behaviour. Is this what you mean by non-gaslighting?
I remember now, a friend I'd made from The Forum weekend was also doing some assisting, and she told me how aggressive they were to these volunteers. They had to clean the toilets in a particular way and were spoken to very rudely. She was very angry and unhappy about this and didn't do any more. And it certainly put me off assisting.
What is fascinating though is that people do continue to assist and go along with this behaviour. Is this what you mean by non-gaslighting?