Emily, you have my deepest sympathy as I went through the same difficulty you are going through (see my contribution to "LGAT in Concord" thread, p. 4-5), and your boyfriend is being sucked into a quasi-cult and your intuition is correct. Learn more about what you and your boyfriend have gotten into from the resources on this forum and how to protect yourself because you are not alone.
The people running the scam are heartless and evil and are in it only for the money, and they don't care who they destroy to get what they want. You need to be strong in standing up to this abuse by knowing that the trainers are evil scoundrels who won't tell you their last names or their qualifications. If you want honest help then you and your boyfriend need it from licensed people with professional credentials after their last names which are posted on an office door. Fast-talking strangers cannot be trusted.
The people running the scam are heartless and evil and are in it only for the money, and they don't care who they destroy to get what they want. You need to be strong in standing up to this abuse by knowing that the trainers are evil scoundrels who won't tell you their last names or their qualifications. If you want honest help then you and your boyfriend need it from licensed people with professional credentials after their last names which are posted on an office door. Fast-talking strangers cannot be trusted.