Oh my gosh!! My now ex partner did this to me inky last week when we were breaking up. I had been in an intimate relationship with him for the last 18 months but have been close friends for essentially 18 months. He has just come off two days of the SELP course, the fifth weekend of training, and was being non sensicle. He was accusing me of being someone I'm not and that I say mean things. He has misinterpret things I had been saying ever since the second day of his "self extension and leadership program" he had facilitated through his work. It is continuing for another three months. I would not break eye contact with him. I have a health science degree and I knew what he was doing but it didn't occur to me it was a Landmark tactic. In the end he put his head down and then could not return my gaze as my answers remained the same each time he attempted to paraphrase and supposedly catch me out. I know my truth. I don't know though to get through to him. I think he is completely lost.
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