It is alarming to see how they are perceived to be deep thinkers, kind and caring to everyone else, yet are cold and callous to those who love them and genuinely have their best interests at heart.
I know when he was made to do his three and five year goal plans, they predominately featured around his work, kids and himself. I was not included. I only found this out after bit I noticed the change in him when he said that was his next assignment. It was after this assignment the dynamic and everything between us changed. He stopped talking to me about anything to do with the course and became quite closed and secretive.
His current actions contradict the person who he was, so internally he must be in such turmoil I would say.
I think on reflection after a huge fight we had in July in which he acted completely disproportionatly and irrationally to a statement I said, he kicked me out of the house and didn't talk to me for two days. He then called and wanted to pretend it never happened and move on. He never apologised though. Between this and us breaking up in August he started to critisise me and would become irritated by me for simple mundane things.
I think he must have been broken down during this session and not given any coping/re building mechanisms for the way up.
As both Corboy and Kdag have mentioned his critical thinking ability seems to be null and void.
Again that's for your contribution as it is helping me.
I know when he was made to do his three and five year goal plans, they predominately featured around his work, kids and himself. I was not included. I only found this out after bit I noticed the change in him when he said that was his next assignment. It was after this assignment the dynamic and everything between us changed. He stopped talking to me about anything to do with the course and became quite closed and secretive.
His current actions contradict the person who he was, so internally he must be in such turmoil I would say.
I think on reflection after a huge fight we had in July in which he acted completely disproportionatly and irrationally to a statement I said, he kicked me out of the house and didn't talk to me for two days. He then called and wanted to pretend it never happened and move on. He never apologised though. Between this and us breaking up in August he started to critisise me and would become irritated by me for simple mundane things.
I think he must have been broken down during this session and not given any coping/re building mechanisms for the way up.
As both Corboy and Kdag have mentioned his critical thinking ability seems to be null and void.
Again that's for your contribution as it is helping me.