From the Psychology Today article cited above
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In short, feeling wounded and shattered and puzzled by someone ghosting you
is about THEM.
It is not about you pulling a 'racket'.
If this guy comes back, throughmyeyes, keep us updated here on CEI.
Perhaps, perhaps many other people are out there who have been ghosted
by LEC graduates.
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Ghosting gives you no cue for how to react. It creates the ultimate scenario of ambiguity.
Should you be worried?
What if they are hurt and lying in a hospital bed somewhere?
Should you be upset?
Maybe they are just a little busy and will be calling you at any moment.
You don’t know how to react because you don’t really know what has happened.
Staying connected to others is so important to our survival that our brain has evolved to have a social monitoring system (SMS) that monitors the environment for cues so that we know how to respond in social situations.12 Social cues allow us to regulate our own behavior accordingly, but ghosting deprives you of these usual cues and can create a sense of emotional dysregulation where you feel out of control.
In short, feeling wounded and shattered and puzzled by someone ghosting you
is about THEM.
It is not about you pulling a 'racket'.
If this guy comes back, throughmyeyes, keep us updated here on CEI.
Perhaps, perhaps many other people are out there who have been ghosted
by LEC graduates.