Throughmyeyes~
To the best of my understanding, a racket is a persistent complaint. They would also go on to say that it is accompanied by a persistent behavior. In other words, someone complains about the same thing over and over, but keeps behaving in the same way, and thus perpetuates the experience.
There is sort of a grey area, though, as to how it is used, and some people involved in L.E. would use the term to describe any persistent complaint, period. This might not have been the term that a forum leader would have chosen for that scenario, but many participants are less exact in their definitions. In my case, I had changed much of my behavior, but had refused to reconcile or contact someone who had betrayed me. The person who had recruited me into L.E. still referred to that as my "racket"
Also, corboy is giving you good advice. I can see where a Lekkie might use this "ghosting" as a means to traumatize someone, and then try to sell you on an L.E. course when you are most vulnerable, suggestible, and confused. That sounds like classic Landmark to me. Also, notice how your ex tried to make it sound as if YOU are the one with the problem. More classic Landmark. It's never them, it's always you, (also typical of a narcissist).
Yes, they take more and more of your time, including phone calls. This also occurs in the seminars, where group leaders have group calls with the seminar leader, and also with their group.
To the best of my understanding, a racket is a persistent complaint. They would also go on to say that it is accompanied by a persistent behavior. In other words, someone complains about the same thing over and over, but keeps behaving in the same way, and thus perpetuates the experience.
There is sort of a grey area, though, as to how it is used, and some people involved in L.E. would use the term to describe any persistent complaint, period. This might not have been the term that a forum leader would have chosen for that scenario, but many participants are less exact in their definitions. In my case, I had changed much of my behavior, but had refused to reconcile or contact someone who had betrayed me. The person who had recruited me into L.E. still referred to that as my "racket"
Also, corboy is giving you good advice. I can see where a Lekkie might use this "ghosting" as a means to traumatize someone, and then try to sell you on an L.E. course when you are most vulnerable, suggestible, and confused. That sounds like classic Landmark to me. Also, notice how your ex tried to make it sound as if YOU are the one with the problem. More classic Landmark. It's never them, it's always you, (also typical of a narcissist).
Yes, they take more and more of your time, including phone calls. This also occurs in the seminars, where group leaders have group calls with the seminar leader, and also with their group.
