You got that right.
Here's a warning: some slick types can turn our No into a Yes by teasing us
and joking with us until we laugh.
Once we laugh, it is much more difficult to continue to say no.
So...here is the take home lesson:
If you say no and the other person/s start teasing you and trying to get you to
laugh -- GET AWAY.
Am sorry to say that I learned this the hard way. Laughter is a sneaky shit
way to dilute and disrupt boundaries and resistance.
I've started a new discussion thread about uses of laughter. If anyone
who has been processed through an LGAT has observed anything special
about uses of laughter, please feel free to contribute.
[forum.culteducation.com]
Here's a warning: some slick types can turn our No into a Yes by teasing us
and joking with us until we laugh.
Once we laugh, it is much more difficult to continue to say no.
So...here is the take home lesson:
If you say no and the other person/s start teasing you and trying to get you to
laugh -- GET AWAY.
Am sorry to say that I learned this the hard way. Laughter is a sneaky shit
way to dilute and disrupt boundaries and resistance.
I've started a new discussion thread about uses of laughter. If anyone
who has been processed through an LGAT has observed anything special
about uses of laughter, please feel free to contribute.
[forum.culteducation.com]