I have a question about this “Real Love” group. My son has been sucked into this group through his wife’s mother. She introduced my son and her daughter when they were dating. It’s a long story but I remember the first time his future mother-in-law invited her daughter and my son to one of her “group meetings “, he called me later and he told me about the meeting. He said that it made him really sad to hear all of these people sit around and talk about how they had never felt “unconditional”love. He said “l was so sad because I always felt love, and knew my brother and Sister loved me, and knew you and dad loved me, and knew you loved each other, and knew that I loved you all. It just made me sad!” He married the girl back in May. We flew out to the wedding, then in June he sent the same email to each member of the family, his father and I, his sister, and his brother and said that he was breaking all ties with family “ while I work on personal improvements.” We have not heard a word since. This has been devastating to our very close family. We get some items of news about him from mutual friends but that is all.
My question is whether this is part of this organization’s mode of operation? Separate a person from their family and those who truly love them in an effort to control them. Like I said this has been devastating. Our family is so close. This son and our daughter spent a year together at the same college and would have lunch together every day. Now he never speaks to her. She is devastated. Would love any insight.
I did buy the book and read some of it. I am a Nurse Practitioner by profession and I honestly couldn’t stomach the constant contradictions in most of his statements. It was very apparent to me that it was written by a person who had an addicted personality and who also had borderline personality disorder. I am very troubled and could use some information to gain insight into what I am up against!
I write my son every week. He may not be responding to me but I won’t stop being his mother and letting him know how much I love an miss him!
My question is whether this is part of this organization’s mode of operation? Separate a person from their family and those who truly love them in an effort to control them. Like I said this has been devastating. Our family is so close. This son and our daughter spent a year together at the same college and would have lunch together every day. Now he never speaks to her. She is devastated. Would love any insight.
I did buy the book and read some of it. I am a Nurse Practitioner by profession and I honestly couldn’t stomach the constant contradictions in most of his statements. It was very apparent to me that it was written by a person who had an addicted personality and who also had borderline personality disorder. I am very troubled and could use some information to gain insight into what I am up against!
I write my son every week. He may not be responding to me but I won’t stop being his mother and letting him know how much I love an miss him!