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Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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Thanks kdag for adding context to my post. I forgot it wasn’t following my previous one.

Both those articles are very spot on.

And yes, if a fellow participant in Landmark is also a work subordinate the relationship is extremely unethical and dangerous for all involved.

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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Kdag in a seperate note, why do Landmark participants seem to have a perpetual state of happiness faciam expressions? It seems a little disconcerting. Or am I being pessimistic and they truly believe they are that happy?

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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Throughmyeyes,

I don't know the answer to that. I found myself doing that when I was there, as well, even if i was exhausted and didn't feel well, (or was bored). It didn't seem like a conscious decision, but felt automatic.

I think it might be part of our social upbringing - the staff smiles, so we smile back? It's almost as if society (inadvertently) programs us to smile back if someone smiles at us.

When I was a kid, (long ago) I also smiled non-stop if I was stoned on pot, even if I was decidedly unhappy, and i think that was a physiological reaction.

LGATS are known to trigger the body, with some of their tactics, (like sleep deprivation and sensory deprivation), so I don't know if LGATS trigger that particular physiological reaction, or if it is just our social programming.

Vanilla or Chocolate? You don't have to justify your actions

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Someone made this comment. It may be a foundation for creating selfishness.

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Anonymous said...
The Forum is a load of rubbish.

My dad went, and they encouraged him and a group of others to abuse each other verbally. And my dad had been so brainwashed by it all that he was encouraged to believe this was "funny". I felt so awkward when he told me what had been said and started laughing...it was so weird.

My stepbrother and stepmum were involved in it too. This is the sort of rubbish that landmark feeds people - I was asked by the three of them, "Vanilla or chocolate ice cream?". I answered chocolate. I was asked why. I said I prefer chocolate to vanilla, it tastes better. Apparently this is the wrong answer. They were all laughing at me as if I was missing some crucial and fundamental key to understanding something vital. Apparently I chose it, merely because....I chose it!! That's it. And this is supposed to be a breakthrough.

Now, it might seem silly and harmless, but it's actually really really dangerous. Think about it - this little exercise is basically teaching people that they don't have to justify their actions. It teaches them to be selfish. To not take responsibility for their own choices.

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16 NOVEMBER 2011 AT 00:20
Anonymous said...
Ten years ago I worked as a law clerk for a law firm that was deep into Landmark. New hires were persuaded or bullied into attending the Landmark Forum seminars - at their own expense. I held out (couldn't afford it!) but my boss had a Forum woman who had free run of the office and used to try to talk to me and get me to have a "breakthrough" at least four times a week. She would get right up in my face and yell, spittle flying and that would go on for a couple of hours in the conference room before I would just say casually, "Yes, I've had a breakthrough."
Of course no such thing happened. I became the black sheep at that firm - I was told I was "damaging the space" by these sick brainwashed attorneys but no one could adequately define this for me. My boss asked me into his office where he slid a pager across the desk to me. He told me he would page me several times a week and I was to give him a blow job whenever he required, since I refused to take the Landmark Forum seminar. I laughed because I couldn't believe it, then I quit.

I got in touch with the author of "Cults in Our Midst" and she pointed out that Landmark Education is often used as a way to bully employees which is what happened at that law firm. When business was down all of us from attorneys down to the file clerks had to listen to a lecture on how if we just apply ourselves, the phones will start ringing.

(Corboy note: The author of Cults in Our Midst was Dr. Margaret Singer. See footnote at bottom of this entry)

I remember a nice older lady who had just started working there and went to LF and came back a new person with a wide grin and crazy eyes spouting off about how wonderful it was. She seemed completely brainwashed! It was very disturbing. I don't know how long her Landmark 'high' lasted because I left.

Ten years later that nine month experience working for those crazies still really bothers me. I'm working on getting it out of my system by putting it on video. I think it will be a comedy. Btw, that attorney was disbarred 2 yrs after I quit because he stole money from clients. Now he has his license back and is screwing people again in Tucson, AZ (now he's doing bankruptcies). Landmark Forum and the sick people it attracts needs to be revealed as the cynical scam it really is. And I'm working on that.


Footnote:

Dr. MargaretSinger was sued by Landmark because she'd referred to LEC when describing Large Group Awareness Trainings in the first, 1995 edition of Cults in Our Midst)

For additional information, read here:

[alandmarkeducation.wordpress.com]

This from The Rip Off Report

[www.ripoffreport.com]

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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There is no shortage of people giving positive testimonies about Werner Erhard's products -- est, The Forum, Landmark Education.

This person has given an excellent rebuttal

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posted by Darlingbri at 2:10 PM on May 19, 2011


Regardless of how you feel about the content of the courses, Landmark is an organisation you should not give your money to because they use that money to litigate their critics into bankruptcy in order to silence them. Notably, the very valuable Cult Awareness Network went bankrupt while being sued by Landmark, who then went after Rick Ross. Other groups that indulge in this notably include Scientology, just for your reference.

Here is a history of the litigation they have been involved in.

[www.culteducation.com]

It includes the suit they filed against Ross, one of the most vocal and credible anti-cult activists currently working. Here is the introduction to that law suit written by my dad, who with the backing of his firm, spent years of his life defending Rick Ross against Landmark, pro bono, so that he would not be silenced.

[www.google.com]

Here is the Wikipedia article about that case. (Corboy note: Wikipedia entries are subject to change, so use with caution)

[en.wikipedia.org]

People generally don't like it when you point to something they feel positively about and call it a cult, so I'm not even touching that question or giving my opinion on that. As an alternative strategy, I am suggesting you ask how a moral person could knowingly give money to an organisation that spends millions of those dollars to violate their critics' first amendment rights. Landmark may well be good for him, but it is horrific beyond measure for others. They destroy the lives of the people they sue unless those people are very lucky with their representation indeed.

Should your partner get more involved in this, protect yourself and protect your finances. Feel free to memail me.

Corboy: What follows is clever distraction from a fake reasonable Landmarkian.

The author claims not to have been familiar with the lawsuits mentioned by Darlingbri.

Instead, the Landmarkian describes knowing people who did Landmark and never heard of anyone being taken for a ride financially.

Then asks Darlingbri if he or she can supply references to Landmark participants being taken advantage of financially.

All this ignores what Darlingbri has already told us - and supported with references.

That Landmark has a long and well documented history of suing anyone who has published information about its harmful and exploitative practices.

Using lawsuits to scare people into going silent about allegations of harm
incurred while involved with Landmark is designed to keep such information
hidden.

So that Landmarkians can continue to claim they have have not heard of anyone being harmed or financially taken advantage of.

Landmark uses your money to keep people who feel harmed by LEC from speaking up.

When Rick Ross created a moderated message board and scores of former Landmark subjects gathered, described what they'd been put through, Landmark sued Rick Ross.


Anyone sued by Landmark to silence them has been financially taken for a ride.

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Reading through these responses, it strikes me that many of them fall into these two categories:
My friend/roommate/spouse/ex did the Landmark Forum. Omigod, cult cult cult! Get out your crucifix and garlic!
I did the Landmark Forum. It was a mixed bag/good/great. I learned some valuable things, but the organization certainly has some issues.
It's striking how different the perceptions are between those who have actually done the workshops and those who haven't.

Should your partner get more involved in this, protect yourself and protect your finances.

I can't speak to the lawsuits that DarlingBri references. I'm not familiar with them. On the other hand, I knew many people who were deeply involved in Landmark in the 1990s, taking one or course or another pretty much all the time for a couple of years. I didn't know anyone or ever hear of anyone getting taken for a ride financially.

At that time their classes cost what classes typically cost, or even on the low end: $150 for a seminar that ran once a week for three months; maybe $500 for a three-day weekend program or $1,500 for something that ran a couple of weekends. We're not talking drain-the-college-savings-account-and-take-out-a-second-mortage numbers.

DarlingBri, do you have references on Landmark participants being taken advantage of financially?
posted by alms at 5:36 PM on May 19, 2011 [1 favorite]

Corboy: Darlingbri already supplied references. This Landmarkian has ignored
them and has shifted the discussion to an entirely different topic.

The Landmarkians says he or she cannot speak to the lawsuits because he or she has not heard of any.

This is just a way to dodge main topic of DarlingBri's argument. Instead, the Landmarkian shifts the topic to something else entirely, claiming never to have heard reports of anyone in Landmark being taken for a ride financially, then niggling that the fees for Landamrk courses are no where near taking out mortgages.

That's just more distraction and minimization.

Anyone sued into silence by Landmark, as DarlingBri has documented, has been 'taken for a ride' financially AND emotionally.

Plus, with Landmarks track record of filing lawsuits against persons giving harm reports on Landmark, its inability to tolerate anything less than glowing
testimonials, this shows Landmark wants freedom of speech only for itself, and cannot tolerate candid criticisms from those who disliked participating in Landmark -- and dislike lECs impact on friends and loved ones.

Re: Vanilla or Chocolate? You don't have to justify your actions

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As to the "Chocolate or Vanilla" choice, it was presented somewhat differently in my forum.

In the first round, the participant chooses between the two flavors, and the reason he gives is allowed to stand.

In the second round, the flavor of preference is taken away, and the participant is offered only the flavor they like the least, and again told to choose. They are then asked again about their reason, and no actual reason is accepted.

The point was supposedly to get the participant to answer in a way that did not communicate resignation, ("it's the only flavor available"), but, to me it seemed more as if they were trying to get people to smilingly accept whatever was handed to them, no matter how they dislike it.

L.E. tries to get people to drop their preferences and aversions, and in this example, it's an easy thing to do. It's a minor "choice" of no consequence.

Of course, anyone can do that with ice cream, but after the demonstration, we had to divide up and talk about distressing situations in our own lives, and declare to our partner that we chose them.

I had a problem with their insistence that it was actually a choice. The participant is not given the option of declining, (I did ask), so it's actually an illusion of choice, as opposed to a "take it or leave it" Hobson's choice.

I did not get that I don't have to justify my choices. It felt more to me that I was being asked to "own" having made a choice when there was no actual choice involved.

Re: quote, unquote "Real Love" - $$$

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Hi Dingo,

How have you gotten on with extricating yourself? I fear I may have lost my partner of 6 years to Real Love. Long story short, I expressed my concerns about it being quite cult-like and my worries that it would have a negative affect on our relationship (which is/was actually really fantastic, open, honest and healthy) and suddenly he's decided, in spite of the fact that we're not experiencing any problems, that he needs 'a break'. I'm so worried about him and I fear that he's throwing everything into this because he's been promised that RL is the only answer and he's in a really bad place right now. Any advice on how to approach this? TIA.

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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Thanks Corbin and kdag.

Kdag your chocolate and vanilla scenario seems to be what happened to me, but in my case he did not chose me. As you know, no explanation was given for his choice.

Not giving people content is extremely destructive.

The smiling through dissatisfaction that you alluded to earlier is interesting as well. Actually the entire chocolate/vanilla exercise is not conducive to effective communication at all. A person should not be smiling when they are doing something they don’t like or are causing people pain, and being forced to do so is awful. It would induce sociopathic traits.

I think Corboy posted earlier about how the Landmark participant is taught to smile or laugh if someone else is crying/upset. All these concepts must be tied in together someway to contribute to the change in someone’s outward demeanour and their behaviours. It must be something to do with altering the Limbic system which also happens during the sleep/sensory deprevation and fear based meditation - again when you are meant to laugh after it’s finished.

Even summising the information from you both and from what I observed, the landmark participant seems to be encouraged to only project happiness no matter the consequences. This denies true feelings to surface for themselves and those around them, as no ones true feelings are even acknowledged - or allowed to be displayed for that matter.

Wow....

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When they demonstrated the choice exercise, (chocolate/ vanilla), I saw it as a lesson to take what's available, and make the best of it. Not a bad point, and it's a great skill to have a good attitude in the face of disappointments.

The problem I had was when they paired us up, and we had to "choose" a situation that we were really upset about. This could be a betrayal, or a serious loss, etc. That did not sit well with me, and I agree that trying to fake your way through it can do more harm than good. Also, in "choosing" it, I would have been taking responsibility for someone else's behavior, (which was betrayal).

I also did not like their new definition of "choice." It would take an idiot to "choose" some of the things that people were dealing with, and once again, they were twisting the meaniings of words.

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Here is some information on how Landmarkians are trained to ignore when people say no.

[forum.culteducation.com]

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As her boyfriend got further into the organization, signing up for the leadership and self-expression program, Sumerlin agreed to attend an introductory course.

"They were just big sales pitches," she says. "We were whisked away into these back rooms where they try to get you to sign up. If you don't they want to know why. What's so great about your life that you don't want to improve it? Why do you have such a hard time committing to anything?"


In fact, she says, a former (Landmark) volunteer told her how they were taught to desensitize themselves to objections from potential recruits by singing "Old MacDonald Had a Farm" and substituting all the possible objections people might have for the verses:

"I'm not signing up because…of money." Normal human person

Ee-I-Ee-I-O. Landmarkian tune-out

I'm not signing up because…I don't want to. Normal human person

Ee-I-Ei-I-O." Landmarkian tune-out


Corboy opinions and hunches.

No human being, acting in good faith, can cope with people who pretend to be in good faith but who have been systematically trained to pretend listening while ignoring any response contrary to their ideology.

And...because they're treating you as an object while you are relating to them as persons, these Landmarkians will not get exhausted, while you rapidly will get exhausted.

Respecting people actually takes something out of us. It requires effort.

Treating people as programmable objects turns communication into mere programming. No empathy, no care whatsover.

The non Lamdmarkian is being hacked by the Landmarkian. The non Landmarkian is unaware that he or she is not being seen as a person but merely as a problem to be solved, a mere glitch housed in a soft machine.

The non Landmarkian is is bug, a programming error that is to be detected and recoded as Landmarkmese.

Maybe this is the great secret:

In Werner Erhard's world, relationships are not between persons. Relationships
are mere technology.

Persons do not exist.

You are either a soft machine that runs on Landmark code, or a soft machine
that runs on non Landmark code.

Anyone in the latter category must have their DOS scrubbed clean and re-loaded with Landmark code, then released upon the unsuspecting general population.

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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corboy is correct. Also, you are better off simply saying "no," and stressing that you have absolutely ZERO interest.

If you give your would-be recruiter reasons for why you cannot attend, they are trained to magically come up with "solutions" to every obstacle.

In the seminars, the seminar leaders train particpants to recruit through the use of role-playing. They pass back and forth a box of Kleenex,  with the goal of keeping the kleenex with the would-be recruit.

It goes something like this:

"Gee, I'm sorry, but I have a whole bunch of meetings at work next week." (hands seminar leader the kleenex).

S.L. "That's okay, we have another introduction the week after," (hands back box of kleenex).

"But I can never find a babysitter."

S.L. "I have a friend who can babysit." (hands back kleenex).

...and on and on ad nauseam.

Once they get you to the intro, you have deliberately gone without money or checkbook.  Your "friend"  who invited you whips out a $100 bill to cover your down payment. If you still decline, they will resort to tears.

Also, the introduction is designed so that you will have listed things in your life that are NOT working.

Another ploy is for the introduction leader to say, "Okay, fine! If you really want to stay in your crappy job, and are not really comitted to saving your marriage,  (which is the LAST thing Landmark will actually do), then, by all means, go on about your life the way you always have."

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Thank you, that actually makes much more sense to me. It explains how I was exactly treated. As an object/problem to be solved.

He has no empathy, compassion or the ability to communicate effectively. He is robotic in his actions and extremely self serving needing the accolades and validations of a rock star.

Thank you both. That really really helped.

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Gosh, if it is taking me this long to decipher and rebuild - it just proves how insidious Landmark is. I was the collateral damage and I didn’t even partake.

Huge kudos to those within Landmark who are to break free and begin to recover.

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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Here is a comparison that might help.

Imagine you have a laptop that runs on Linux.

How would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend/boss converted
their computer to MS DOS and the Windows 10 program and after doing
this, began pressuring you to do the same?

Every conversation turns into a sales pitch to change your
laptop from Linux to MS DOS and Windows 10.

Meanwhile:

Suppose people who were having problems with Windows 10 got served with
lawsuits by Microsoft if they published articles describing specific malfunctions of Windows 10, along with MS DOS being more vulnerable to
viruses than Linus or OS.

Imagine Microsoft serving lawsuits against online discussion forums where
members discuss problems they had with MS DOS and Windows 10. Imagine
such forum discussions being repeatedly disrupted by pro Microsoft trolls.

Sound fanciful?

Substitute 'Landmark' for Microsoft and that is pretty much what we have seen
here at CEI.

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Once again, corboy has nailed it.

The only things that I would add are that:

1). Even when you say "no," if you continue to hang out with your bf/gf/boss, they are likely to try to install bits and pieces of their software when your back is turned.  Graduates have a tendency to take on L.E. methods of dealing with people,  so you pick up "fleas."

2). If you go as far as to sign up for the forum, and sign the consent form, they seem to take that as a green light for ANYTHING they can come up with, not just the description of what the course allegedly IS. 

If you later back out, (I see it's not for me, thanks), rather than backing off, they might actually become MORE aggressive. They did with me.

Re: Klemmer and USANA?

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Hello DJTD2008

Just following up on how your relationship is going 4 years after the class, and specifically what you learned from the class that is helping in your marriage??

All the shares and testimonials are a little fluffy ( Seminar high) so would love it if you and your husband are being/doing something specific and different

After all you all did the work and paid your tuition no idea why you thank Brian klemmer? How do you thank / honor yourself for the hard work you put in everyday to make your relationship better? Brian Klemmer or his wife has long spent YOUR tuition money and thanked you once you left heart of Samurai

Did your USANA UPLINE benefit from letting you know about Klemmer and Associates? Like a comped HEart of Samurai for thier tuition for hosting a champion's workshop?

As far as USANA and Klemmer and associates direct selling, someone had posted on pissedconsumer the results from Klemmer Direct Selling training. The results are HIGHLY suspect with the average improvement and average income and no control group of USANA reps that NEVER took Klemmer with the same USANA years of experience. Basically measurable data is meaningless, but I am sure USANA reps had a great time and bowed to Brian Klemmer for his samurai sword. Little culty no?

Klemmer likes USANA and other network marketing companies because of the "Come hither come one, come all" that Direct Sellers are known for. Direct selling companies BUILD Klemmer classes for him by shoving downlines thru Champions workshops.

We all know how Direct selling companies like GROUP think and GROUP action - works well with Culty Klemmer Seminars that have herd tendencies and cult like traits in Klemmer Associates Personal Mastery, ALS and Heart of Samurai.

If you are a "joiner" in life, you wont notice anything different

Sorry just know the average network marketer spends more than they make, and barely make jack. U

USANA is a great company and great products so if you are dong well, congratulations!

Food for though for future USANA reps

VIDEO: Gratitude Training Cult Founder ACTUALLY DRINKS KOOL-AID. Do you agree with her message?

Re: VIDEO: Gratitude Training Cult Founder ACTUALLY DRINKS KOOL-AID. Do you agree with her message?

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Freda_Last,

I watched the short version.

It looks to me as if she was trying to obscure the points that people make about G.T.'s potential destructiveness by arguing over definitions.

The joke about the cool-aid was in very bad taste.

Re: VIDEO: Gratitude Training Cult Founder ACTUALLY DRINKS KOOL-AID. Do you agree with her message?

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Thank you, kdag. It's so hard when someone try to confuse you.

She addressed nothing. Only concerned with manipulating terms. Making it like CULT is a good thing.

Re: Landmark concept of love and sex - are they two different concepts?

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If I may, I like to add what I see about Love and Sex in Gratitude Training, which is same as Life Spring and Landmark, yes?

I also see marriages fall apart. I see many senors in the training playing with attendees, married and single. And I see them turn blind eyes on them playing with each other.

They push people to be intimate with each other. This is what I notice. People share things with strangers, that they used to only share with their partner. They hold hands and do eye gazing and they talk about their partner with each other like their partner has been baggage. Or garbage. And they smile and support each other while doing it. In the stretches they strip down to wearing nothing. They rub against each other laughing and crying like maniacs. I think they don't get that druggie high when they are in their marriage. it can make a regular marriage seems dull I think.

They decide that their familia is just not what they are committed to anymore. Intimacy is spread to anyone. It is encouraged. Even straight women and men are worn down to be bi-sexual or turn gay.

I ask about the trainers in Gratitude Training before I leave. All have very trouble in past. Addiction, divorce, child neglect, emotional issues, sexual confusion. All them are swingers. I guess they introduce it to others to feel better about themselves.

I ask my friends and familia, if you know all this, why you want to learn from these people?! They don't know. They really don't know.
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